viernes, 24 de mayo de 2013

A conversation that changed my life.

After 5 months without seeing a friend that lost his wife to sudden illness, I ran into him in a mall. I hate malls. We saw each other from the distance and decided to say hi, we shared a solid embrace, and had this small conversation:

FRIEND
How are you Jorgy?

ME
I'm alright, but I really wanna know how are you doing man?

He sighed, kept quiet for a second, I got nervous and felt bad right away. He looked right into my eyes and said the following:

FRIEND
Jorgy, my man, I'm trying to live my life exactly how I want my life to be.

...

He hugged my again and just took off.

I stood there in the middle of the people, in a filthy mall. I just stood there for a long time.
That friend shocked my existence to its core.

I forgot why I was even there and left the mall. After 10 minutes of just sitting in my car, my eyes began to get watery, I started the car and drove to my house, went to my room and got my Jujutsu uniform.

When I got to the dojo the class stopped and the sensei shouted:

SENSEI
Matte! everybody facing the door and salute the sensei, REI!

Everybody was really excited, even the students that did not know me.

I went in and practiced like it was my first day there. It was my first time there in a year after I developed a serious lower back problem. Turns out I was more afraid to get hurt again than anything else. They knew about my bad back, and really took care of me. Martial artist are one big family.

My life changed that day and I cannot express how angry I get at myself when I forget this story.

I found happiness that day, that part of me that I had pushed aside. I found part of myself that day.

Now, I tell myself that story everyday I wake up, I tell it to others and now I'm sharing it with you.

"My man, I'm trying to live my life exactly how I want my life to be"

What a scary and beautiful thing to try.

Let's all dedicate ourselves on being happy.

Why not?

My back is just fine now, it does what I need it to do. I lost the fear of getting hurt. I guess I can do that with many of things in my life.






2 comentarios:

Libélula dijo...

Charles Bukowski said: “There is nothing that teaches you more than regrouping after failure and moving on. Yet most people are stricken with fear. They fear failure so much that they fail. They are too conditioned, too used to being told what to do. It begins with the family, runs through school and goes into the business world.”

Losing that fear is good. I'm proud of you :)

Anónimo dijo...

tu no te imaginas lo bien q me ha hecho leer esto.
gracias